The one constant in human life is change. Since being told, several times in one night, to go back to where I'm from, I'm so confused. Do I go back to the city where I was born, to the town where I was raised, to my now deceased husband's first job, to the town where my children were raised, to where I lived overseas, or do I stay here? Enough of the go back to where you came from. Realize change is always going to happen.